Adoption - Answer to prayer

Well, we received the answer to our prayers concerning our potential adoption today.

ISSJ stated that after our homestudy, they decided our family did not fit with their policies and we would not proceed any further in the process.

We are, of course, disappointed, as our hopes of having a daughter added to our family have not materialized.  However, we recognize this as an answer to our prayers from the beginning, which was always for God to direct us in this process towards His will for our lives.  We resolved to tell the complete truth during the entire process, not hiding any of our opinions or reasons for adoption that might be unpalatable or politically incorrect.  We have our suspicions as to why we were rejected, though we cannot be certain as the specific reasons are not divulged per their policy, which we knew about from the beginning.  Regardless of ISSJ's reasons, we recognize God holds ultimate sway over the hearts of men, and so we take this as His way of answering our prayers for guidance.

In another way, this opens a new and exciting chapter in our lives, as we see ourselves free to pursue other tasks and directions in the medium to long term, instead of devoting ourselves to raising another child.  We continue to pursue opportunities for the Kingdom and relationships that may lead to additional opportunities.

Recently, we began working with an organization in the US (http://ministrytothemilitaryinternational.com/) that seeks to plant a reformed (PCA) church near the base.  We are helping to organize meetings to see if there is enough interest to do this.

We are also thinking about moving closer to the base to reduce our rent and save more for the future (when our income is likely to decrease significantly).

We continue to reach out to other like-minded ministries and establish relationships in hopes of finding our "place" in the mid to long-term future.

Anyway, that brings us up to date.  The long horribly hot and humid summer looks to finally be finished, and we are looking forward to the cool fall season.

Churui, Hokkaido WWOOF Trip

Ok, so we got back from our trip a few weeks back and I'm finally getting around to a post.  This was our first WWOOF experience (volunteering to work on a farm/business in exchange for food and lodging), and we picked Hokkaido in what we thought was going to be full summer to escape the heat.  However, turns out the first week of July is still quite pleasant overall and it wasn't the hideous heat and humidity that defines summer in our part of Japan.  The switch got flipped the week we got back.

In any case, the weather was very lovely in the little town of Churui, whose main claim to fame is that it is near the site where a Naumann elephant fossil was found, and it is (I think) the childhood home of a famous manga author (Fullmetal Alchemist if anyone is interested).  The climate reminded us a lot of the Willamette Valley, very green.

Hokkaido grows most of the country's fresh produce and there is much more ranching of various kinds.  Its history as part of Japan is actually pretty recent, having been "settled" by the Japanese in the last couple of centuries, displacing the local Ainu people.  So in some ways it has a similar feel to the "West" in the US, certainly feeling younger than the rest of the country.

We arrived on a Friday night and hit the sack upon arriving home.  Mrs. Uragami picked us up at the nearby local airport (Obihiro) and dropped by the local town festival (matsuri) that was in swing, as Mr. Uragami was manning a booth and selling food.  She picked up some leftovers for dinner and we drove to their house, which is a combination house/restaurant/meat shop.  We were told to be downstairs at 8:30am for breakfast.

Breakfasts were pretty western affairs, as I think she figures it's better off for most people.  I would have been happy either way, but we didn't complain.  Often we got to sample some of their meats for breakfast with toast, drinking yoghurt and light veg.  She's been hosting WWOOFers for 10 years, so she's probably had lots of experience with what people prefer.

After this we gathered up the dishes and washed them (along with whatever was left over from last night's restaurant crowd).  Then the day's work really began.

At first, we were tasked with yard work, weeding, and generally tidying up the outside of the place.  I manned the gas powered weed whacker, while Kerri and Rowan helped with weeding and window washing.  It took me a couple of days to clear all of the property, plus another plot of land (the old house).  We would work til just before lunch, when usually we would break for something simple.

Sometimes we got a rest in the afternoon before working in the meat shop, depending on what tasks were available.  We did a lot of washing of bloody, greasy buckets and machinery, but also laid out strips of pork jerky on drying racks, extruded and twisted strings of sausages, and cut pig stomachs into bite-sized chunks (which we then ate with lunch, yum!).  There wasn't always a ton of work to do and we were usually done well before dinner.

We were asked to cook 3 dinner meals for them, as they like to try different foods.  We tried to come up with some stuff they may not have had before, so we decided on stroganoff, filipino adobo and rooshti.  We needed a grater for the rooshti, so we ordered one from Amazon.jp hoping it would arrive before the last meal (it didn't, we ended up just making potato, onion and carrot hash).  All of the meals were hit, especially the adobo, which I must say was the best I've ever made.

The meals they made for us were excellent, from tempura, sushi, genghis khan (meat cooked on a shield), and some simpler, but very satisfying, fare.  In between all of this of course, they occasionally had restaurant customers, which we did not wait on, nor cook for, but we did wash up the dishes.  It was fun to use the kitchen facilities.

Rowan helped out where he could, but often he just played outside in the massive growth of some strange plant that we were told got pickled in the spring for food.  The Uragami's son also works with them, and his wife would often come over with their two sons, Sosuke and Kesuke.  Sosuke was probably around 4 or 5 and pretty  much thought Rowan was awesome.  Rowan wasn't so sure, but he's always happy to run around with someone.  When we left, Sosuke was inconsolable about the loss his new best friend and cried for quite some time.  This was actually the day before we left, but he couldn't bear the thought.  Rowan was a little nonplussed by the whole experience.

All in all, it was a great experience and I look forward to trying more WWOOF places closer to home (when it gets cooler).  I was looking for something that would allow us to see a different side of Japan and spend more time with people in their homes, and also give Rowan an opportunity to experience different kinds of work that he would otherwise never be exposed to.  8 days was a bit long though, I think we would cut it down to 5 max, and usually just a long weekend.

Oh, almost forgot about the onsen that was a 5 minute walk from their house.  A real onsen has natural mineral-laden spring water that is super hot.  This place was much cheaper than they usually are in our area (only about $5 a person) and we were over there 3 times.  The genders are separated, which is good as you're going to be naked.  The deal is you first have to scrub yourself raw (and everyone's looking to see how clean the gaijin will get), then you can soak in extremely hot or extremely cold pools of water for as long as you can take it.  The fact that genders are separated also means that Kerri has to go it alone, which has always been a bit nerve-wracking.  But circumstances dictated that she overcome that issue and she ended up having a good time as she was bombarded with questions by curious locals.  Perhaps not as relaxing as it could have been, she nonetheless enjoyed herself.

Well, we don't have any further trips on the calendar, but if we have any thing fun to post, we will.

-JC

Adoption in Japan - Final Post

So you may notice all the previous posts about the adoption process are gone now.  Yesterday I went for a personal interview and was asked to sign an updated agreement form which included an agreement to not disclose the process, prices or required documents in public.  I told them that I had been doing just that for some time now and if they would like me to remove those posts, to which they responded "Yes please."

So in good faith I have done that.  Sorry to those coming here looking for details, but I cannot give them anymore.  We will still provide general updates as to our progress, without revealing any details.

As to that, things are still progressing and we hope to be on the waiting list soon.

-JC

Sapporo Trip

Wow, it has been a really long time.  Sorry everyone!

We just got back last week from a long planned trip to Sapporo and the Snow Festival they hold there every year.  A friend at work had started planning it almost a year ago as it's so popular that all the hotels sell out far in advance.  We left on Thursday evening, the flight is only 1 1/2 hours, and with a little adventure found our hotel and got settled for the evening.

The next day we went to the nearby fishmarket and wandered the stalls, tasting all the samples.  Another friend bought a fresh sea-urchin which was cut open in front of us and the eggs extracted (uni) for all of us to taste.  Now, I've had uni several times before, and only 1 time (Tsukiji Fish Market in Tokyo) did I have *good* uni.  This stuff was fantastic!  Even Kerri liked it.  Sapporo is famous for fresh uni, salmon roe (ikura) and crab (kani).  There were several restaurants in the fish market for ikura/uni donburi (rice bowls).  I had recently had breakfast, so didn't partake, but I vowed to make it back before we left (successfully!) and try one.

After this, we hopped a bus and went to the Sapporo Brewery.  There were several restaurants there that served the "genghis khan" yakiniku (cook your own meat and veggies) style of mutton.  It was good, but rather plain in my opinion.  Still, they thoughtfully gave us plastic bags to stuff our clothing into so it wouldn't reek of meat.  Then we went to the next door museum, which I found rather uninteresting.  We did have some Sapporo beer at lunch, and as with most Japanese macro beers, I was unimpressed.  It's ok for a lager, but I just don't particularly like lagers (no flavor!).

Next we hopped another bus and rode quite a ways out to an airport where huge snow slides had been set up.  The wind really picked up here, reminding us of Hoth or the planet on Alien.  Snow blowing sideways, you could barely see the looming convention center where we retreated after a few of us braved the looong line for the slide.  Here we recouped and then made our way back to the hotel for a rest.

Finally, we left Rowan at the hotel with some instant ramen (he was happy about this as he has decided he hates snow) and went to a crab specialty restaurant and had all you can eat crab (3 varieties) for 90 minutes.  Oh...my...goodness...we had never done anything like that before (first all you can eat in Japan actually) especially crab!  It was actually not a terrible price, about $50 a person.  I'm told this would easily be over $100 back in the Tokyo/Yokohama area, and the crab wouldn't be as good.  We bravely tackled two platters of crab and couldn't quite finish it all between the six adults present.  Walking back to the hotel, we lingered along several blocked off streets that had some beautiful and impressive ice sculptures.

Back at the hotel Kerri and I braved the public bath downstairs (naked time! but separated by gender).  It was Kerri's first time to do the public bath thing (ofuro) while Rowan and I had tried one nearby where we live at least once before.  Rowan wasn't having any of it this time, so I went alone.  I was trying to hang out until my friend showed up, but the water was so hot I couldn't stand it.  Kerri said her experience was quite busy, with many many people having bath time.  Mine wasn't too bad, and that was the end of day 1.

On Saturday, after sleeping in, we headed down to the main show, the Snow Festival.  There is a section of several blocks in the middle of town where the huge snow sculptures are set up.  Unfortunately, the snow was coming down something fierce, and after a while we all decided we had had enough for the moment.  We then headed for Ramen Alley and a specific ramen shop featured in an Anthony Bourdaine segment that one of our party was keen on trying.  The Hokkaido Butter Miso ramen is quite famous, so we all had to try some.  Yummmmm....

We retreated to the hotel for a much needed rest, intending to head back to the Snow Festival after dark.  Luckily the snow had cleared and it was an excellent viewing time with the lights in full effect.  It was incredibly crowded, and we felt like a pack of penguins all shoved up against each other.  But still, it was fun, and the sculptures were incredible.  We were on the lookout for a smaller set of sculptures from contributing countries around the world, as we had heard that Portland (Sapporo's sister city) had sent a team over to make one.  Unfortunately, it was quite sad, some kind of bigfoot, beaver, duck thing that was not cool at all.  Oh well.

Then it was time for what Kerri and I had been waiting eagerly for.  We had dropped Rowan off at the hotel earlier and then we all headed for Beer Inn Mugishutei.  Years ago, we had heard of this association between Rogue Brewery in Newport and some guy in Sapporo.  Having hunted down his pub, we were super excited to see (and try!) so much good beer.  I particularly liked the double Dead Guy 30th Anniversary special in honor their relationship with Phred Kaufman (the guy himself).  And then, who should show up, but Phred!  So we got to meet him too, which was cool.  He runs a beer distribution business and distributes from Rogue as well as other international breweries all over Japan. Kerri has already made her birthday present request known!

That pretty much wraps it up.  The next day we took the train back to the airport (New Chitose) and flew back to Haneda (Tokyo).  Took the train to the base, did some grocery shopping, and drove home.  All in all, a very enjoyable trip.  We are very grateful to our friends for all the planning, translating and guiding they did to enable all of us to have a good time.

In other news, some of you may know that we have been looking into the possibility of adopting here in Japan.  We have contacted the ISSJ (International Social Service Japan) and made our application.  On Monday, we'll be heading into Tokyo to do the first face-to-face interview.  We know another couple that is adopting through them, and they have good things to say.  We'll keep you posted as things develop on that front.

That's about it.   Winter is wrapping up, and we are hoping spring is around the corner.  Looking forward to all the local festivals and travels we'll be doing this year.  We love it here and hope some of you can come to visit us and experience Japan for yourselves.

-JC

Comings and goings

Kerri and Rowan left the other day for the states where they will be for about a month.  Kerri's sister is getting married in July and we will be there for the event.  I don't leave til July 4th, so I have some time to myself (yay!).  I love being able to explore and take risks that are either inappropriate or just plain difficult when we are all together.

Not that I've done anything exciting yet, but I did eat at a "French" restaurant last night and then we had a typhoon blow through, so it was pretty much stay at home and hope the house doesn't fall down.  But I've made a list of restaurants and will be changing my schedule so I ride home later and can grab dinner at the many little spots I've been riding by for the past six months.

The weather has started heating up, along with the humidity.  This horrible nasty summer everyone talks about is finally getting under way.  No more riding to work and just walking into the office.  It'll be a shower at the gym after I get there.

Tokyo Weekend

(The pictures above are various ones from January through May.  Pictures referenced in this post are near the end.)

Kerri here.  With precious few vacation days, it is crucial that we never waste a three day weekend by sitting around at home. For the Memorial Day holiday we decided to really spend time exploring Tokyo. We had been to a few areas and done a few things but didn't feel that we had "done" Tokyo. Unfortunately, we hit upon this plan a little on the late side and could not find a hotel room in the "reasonable" price category of under $200. Since our house is really only an hour by car, we could stay at home and drive in each day. A more affordable, if less vacationish, option.

We drove in Saturday morning, parked, and took the subway. We went first to Akihabara, the famous electronics district. Jesse had been once before during the iPhone debacle, but didn't really look around as he was focused on his task. I really wanted to see human-like robots, but we didn't find any. We did, however, find the best shawarma I've had since leaving Kuwait. It was worth the entire trip.

Next we headed over to Asakusa where the spirit of old Edo still lives. We did visit the oldest shrine in Tokyo, the Sensoji Temple. The main attraction here, for us anyway, was Kappabashi-dori or Kitchen street. Everything for your restaurant, including fake food for advertising, can be found on this street. We didn't buy anything, but it was really fun looking at all the shops.

At this point we headed back to our car and drove home. We sat out on the patio with the cool breeze sipping a beer and decided that home wasn't so bad.

The military runs a hotel in central Tokyo which we have access to. With it's excellent rates and being that it is quite a nice hotel, it is booked solid every weekend for the rest of the year. We had been told, however, that if you keep calling there might be a cancellation. I did keep at it with no luck for Friday or Saturday, but lucked out on Sunday and scored us a room.

So we headed there Sunday morning, parked the car and walked to the subway station from there. Sunday we went first to the Imperial Palace. You can't actually go in the palace itself, seeing as how the Emperor still lives there, but they do have a large portion of the gardens open to the public, for free. It is a beautiful area right in the middle of all the bustle. The few buildings that could be seen were quite impressive.

After that we headed over to Shibuya, a famous shopping district. Its most famous landmark is the huge pedestrian crossing of Lost in Translation and just about every image you see of Tokyo. There was a store that I really wanted to check out called Tokyu Hands. I didn't know much about it, just that it had fun stuff of all sorts. Well it turned out to be seven stories of fun stuff! The top floor was all science stuff, another was all sewing, another paper crafts, another office/school supplies. There was even a full bike shop. It was so much fun, but we were all so tired. I need to go back with girlfriends and really spend some time.

We were about to crash so we headed to the hotel. We went swimming in the very nice pool and soaked in the hot tub. We ate at one of the five restaurants in the hotel. I'm telling you, it's a nice place.

Monday morning we were up bright and early to get a jump on our final day. Today was Disneyland day. We figured it's a Monday, not a Japanese holiday and the weather is nice, not super hot. What a better time could you do the whole Disney thing? Boy were we wrong. No one knows why, but that particular Monday, all of Japan decided it was a good day for Disney. We managed to get on five rides the entire day. Some lines were three hours. One of the things that Tokyo Disney is famous for is the crazy varieties of popcorn. There are little carts all over selling different flavors. Some of the lines for popcorn were an hour. Needless to say, we sampled none. Rowan and I still managed to have fun, but Jesse said, "never again". There is another Disney park called Disney Seas that we will try next time. I think it's kind of like Californian Adventure, but it has some unique rides only found in Japan. The cool thing is that we live only an hour away so I know we will have plenty of opportunities to go back.

All in all we had a great weekend. We decided that we love Tokyo, but are very happy with where we are living for now. It feels good having a better idea of where things are and how the neighborhoods are organized. I think I could pretty much find my way anywhere now, and feel perfectly comfortable doing so. That's a nice feeling.

A Song for Everything

In our house we can come up with a song for just about anything a person might say, do, or touch. We often use this ability to torture Rowan for our own amusement. In Japan, there really is a song for everything, and I mean everything.

A few years ago Jesse bought his dream rice cooker which, of course, is Japanese. We were totally surprised when it played a song when we hit cook, and a totally different song when the rice was done. We have entertained guests with it and even do a little dance when the music plays. Well now we know that, since it is a Japanese appliance, it must play a song. Our washing machine plays a short song when I press start, and a longer song when it is finished. When the bathtub (which is electronically controlled) is finished filling there is a song. When the garbage trucks go down the road collecting, they play a song along with a message that I assume means, "sorry to inconvenience you". When your train is pulling up to the platform there will be a song, and often a different song while it leaves. If the train is just passing through but not stopping, there is yet a another song. Each train station seems to have their own songs, so if you were really good you could know where you were by the tune. One that baffled us for a while was the song played on loudspeakers in our neighborhood at exactly 4:00pm every day. We were finally informed that it is a signal for the kids that they should head home because it will be dark soon. Now that it is light a bit later, the song has moved to 5:00pm and is an entirely different tune.

As with many things in Japan, it is an amusing yet efficient system. I like it when systems can be both amusing and efficient.

As an aside, Jesse finally remembered to add me to this blog (ya, our FAMILY blog which I could not contribute to), so I hope to do more posting. There may even be pictures next time.